Neighborhood aunties, the reason for the modern day “whores”.

Neighborhood aunties, the Savdhaan India's inspiration are the reason for the modern day “whores”.

When I was a little child, my mom used to sit with aunties in our society (kitty for nowadays moms) the only hot topic was “How a girl’s life is wrecked by a guy.” And the examples given by the aunties were so inspiring that my mom prohibited me from talking to any guy. Mind that I was only two years old. She was so obsessed with the idea that she will bring me up wrong that she actually did. I was not allowed to talk to guys unnecessarily outside the class and my elder brother played a major role of being a tattle as we were in the same school.

I, being a normal kid, did what any other kid in my place would do. I talked to guys. The major discovery was made “guys are helpful” and I deduced that parents lie. It's not that I didn’t talk to girls, I did and every time they did something selfish my beliefs got stronger. Believe me you, the selfish deeds were not as simple as choosing themselves before me but stealing money, stabbing behind my back and stuff.

So from an early age, I friended boys and was a tomboy. My brother, on the other hand, used to tell my mom every time he saw me talking to guys, and I started hating him. Just to save me from my mother’s wrath I used to save my friend's number under girls name on her phone (well many girls can relate to that). So as I grew up I only had guy friends and when I left my school and college I cannot meet my friends as meeting them in my society or any place I will always have a fear in me to not to be seen by any of my neighbors or I will become the society, WHORE. So because of my mom who was so worried about what the society thinks I became a person who can’t stand girls around me and I have trust issues with my parents and my brother remains a guy who still gets angry when he sees me talking to boys.

I? I became a girl who has a lot of guy friends, according to modern day dictionary, a “WHORE”.

1O WAYS TO LOOK SLIM.

I am a plump girl who can’t live without chocolates. Can never continue a diet. But who don’t want to look good at the end of the day (even with your handbag crammed up with sweets).

A great saying: you can’t fool yourself.

My saying: I know am fat but why everyone has to know about that.

1. Wear heels

Yeah you got me right ladies…..am not asking to wear 6 inch pencil heels. Just any amount of heel would work. They not only give you a taller look (which is also a major factor to look slim) but also define your calves giving an illusion of slimmer legs.

If you are a sneaker gal just rub a little bronze on the calf line and you are ready to go.

2. Solid colors

This is a very old trick but work wonders. A lot of colors and patterns attract the attention on the problem areas. If printed, avoid big patterns.

3. Wear gowns (strictly for tall girls)

If you are short this is a big NO!!!! Just forget about it. Seriously! But if you are tall gowns will help you look slim and graceful.

4. Hide your problem areas.

If you have a bloated tummy, go for empire w

aist line (just below your bust). Normally it’s the slimmest part in your torso. Tie your belt at the slender part of your body.

5. Not too much

Don’t wear clothes that are too tight or too baggy. Just the right size.

6 let your HAIR down!!!

Healthy long hair attracts everyone’s eyes. And distract them. An updo will give an illusion of voluminous head.

7. Know yourself.

The person who knows you the best is you yourself. Find your best features and let everyone see the best in you.

8. necklaces

Certain accessories will change how a person’s eyes moves around your body.

9 pull your tummy in

Remember pulling in your tummy to look slim when posing for a picture. Do that exactly but not for a few minutes, always. Not only a fake slim tummy but also a great exercise, a win-win situation.

10 heads up

Double chins can always give you away. Rest your tongue on the upper surface of your mouth, cuts the double chin a little.

I hope you like it. You can comment if you have any suggestions or any queries, would love to hear from you gals.

Surprise your boyfriend in a less girly way….man it up baby!!

Surprise your boyfriend in a less girly way….man it up baby!!

We all girls love the flowers chocolates candle light dinners on our anniversaries and birthdays and being it a surprise is a cherry on the cake. Guys are sentimental too they also love surprises maybe more than we do .but that doesn’t mean to give them with a pink bow on it...right!!!

Allow him to have something you hated: my guy likes to tie up his hair which really pisses me off. But on our first anniversary I choose to get over it and gifted him a pack of rubber bands with a note I accept u and now I have to accept you with a pony.

Give him a bouquet (read on): not of flowers because in my opinion its murder without any intention. 

Give him a bouquet of everything he likes. A nice razor, a tie, gel or anything it’s totally your call.

Balloons for ambience:  not red…red is not a love color now. Color your world around you with the color he loves.

Play games: no not like lady games play racing with him. Make him feel special. Accept him and his nerdy games. Have a water balloon fight

Spice it up: what’s better than a bathroom sex or a wild evening.

Propose: was it him who proposed you and you felt those butterflies in your tummy. Give him a chance to feel that same. Propose him in a way he would love. A beer, fairy lights, light music, you in gown and kneel down and propose, tell him how much you love him.

Time: spend time with him, talk to him about everything, from cells to grass everything. Every theory of yours. Don’t talk about the future, don’t predict everything beforehand, let the time decide.

Fool him: call him in the bathroom and before opening the door to let him in tell him to get nude and when he enter starts the balloon fight out of nowhere.

Wines in bed: be comfortable and sexy. Told ya pajamas are their best friend.

Racing games: play cool games with them so that they get comfortable with you but if you are not a gamer girl this can be tricky. Instead just sit with them while they are playing and really get into it….woohooo crash it baby! Ohhhh you would have hit it! Are some comments that can help…

The whole point of the surprise is to get closer and now it’s your choice how you do it...

Sayonara people! Next one coming soon... and comment if you have any ideas... Would love to give a whole new surprise to my guy….

LATE FOR COLLEGE HACKS!!!

Being late for college is our routine..we cant help it and the worst scenario is when you are late you are carrying a birds nest on your head and in front of you is your crush. all you can do is curse those extra 15 minutes you took to leave your bed.

actually you only need 5 minutes to pull this look. 

1. rise and shine.

      yeah you need to rise 5 minutes earlier. remember the cute guy in the college.

                                                       

2. KAJAL!!

    put some kohl on under and above the eyelid. it will give the illusion of big eyes and active you.

3. SMUDGE SMUDGE SMUDGE
smudge the kohl so that no distinct line cant be seen. who don't love smokey eyes.

4.EYEBROWS
just don't forget the eyebrows it actually gives a distinctive look to your face.

5.LIP COLOR

6.HALF READY

NOW TIME FOR HAIRDO!!!

1. part your hairs. take 2 strands from the side and start twisting them round.

2. secure the strand with a clip.

3.hold hairs in the back and brush them from don below in the reverse motion.move the brush from the end to the scalp in vigorous motions.    

                                       

                       

                                                            this will give volume to your hairs.                                                                                                                                          

4. now take the twisted strand to the back of your head and secure it with a bobby pin

5. repeat the same for the other side and you are ready to go and rock the college.

hope u like it!!!

                                      

HOW TO PAIR UP YOUR DRESSES?

PAIR IT UP FOR A GORGEOUS YOU!!!

how to accessorize your one piece like here a black Zara.

• look through your clothes
• grab a blazer/jacket/shirt in contrast to your one piece, collars go best. I choose a mango's yellow notch collar jacket.
• try to pair up your footwear with the outfit. thumbs up for black or white. whats better than a spieth and wensky black buckle bellies.
• and a leather broad belt. (snatch your brothers belt now!!)

 Hey wait!! not before you do your hairs.

• Do something different if u wear your hair straight curl it up or vice versa.
• Pin a few strands behind and your done....

                                                                   HALLELUJAH!!!!

whats best for the day

Ola girls!!! back again... peek-a-boo..

one thing guys don't know is that one piece dresses are apt for lazy ass like most of us are...

who will take the liberty of pairing the  top then the jeans or skirt with it huh...

just put a dress on a matching pair of footwear and we are on.....they are suitable for every occasion just put the least effort in your look and you are ready for classes..pair up an up do with it and you are ready to rock the evening parties... 

and of course what if you are curvy????duh!! u still rock it if u do it right...

• Just choose a color that suits you best..like here i just LOVE blue
•  i took a empire waistline ONLY dress (best if you are chubby)
• paired it with my white stilettos,
•  wore my hair loose, 
•  put some cohl  on 
•  ready to barge in any party i like..

Just love yourself no matter what because one way or other you are beautiful enough to turn everyone's head... 

comment if you find it helpful...till then TADAAAA!!!!